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The dragon you don't look at gets bigger
Avoidance isn't laziness — it's a feedback loop. A few notes on why the task you keep deferring keeps growing, and what naming it actually does.
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Working notes on procrastination, decision-making, and what it actually takes to face the thing you've been putting off. Some of it becomes the product; all of it is me thinking out loud.
Avoidance isn't laziness — it's a feedback loop. A few notes on why the task you keep deferring keeps growing, and what naming it actually does.
Pilots, surgeons, and forecasters all keep records of when they were wrong. Most of us never do — and our judgment quietly stops improving. Here's a lightweight version anyone can run.